So in my thinking, desire is momentum, and the things that make up our social world are mass: we are pulled along towards them. However, just as a sufficiently powerful gravity well can warp space and time around it, so to can certain things in the social world warp the context.
Read MoreIf it seems like I’m re-weirding heterosexuality, then good. It means I’m doing what I set out to do. If heterosexuality wasn’t already common, I’m not sure we would invent it. That isn’t a judgment of those who experience heterosexual desire, that’s an indictment of our treatment of difference.
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